With every decade there are going to be trends and certain fashion choices that will earn a little smirk in years to come. But there are some classic choices that might help you have less to explain away to your future children.

In your attire, less is better. I don’t mean wear less, I just mean think before you put huge sleeves or big accouterments on your dress. Classic beading with sparkles or pearls will stand the test of time, but too much, and you may regret your choice in ten years. Pay attention to what shade of white or cream looks best with your skin tone. The sales team at your bridal salon will be able to help you if you aren’t sure what looks best. And be sure that your hair, veil and headpiece compliment your dress as well. Something to think about is that if you aren’t comfortable with your hair on your wedding day, you sure aren’t going to be happy with it in photos. Be sure to do some trial runs.

In your décor, stay away from balloons and anything made from tissue. If you love balloons, have them at your bridal shower, they don’t belong at a wedding. The same goes for any paper decorations that you can find in the local party store. Keeping it simple and within budget is still possible without party store décor. No decorations would be better than paper bells hanging in your reception.

If there is something that really defines you and your fiancé, by all means include it in your wedding. There are many ways to include your personalities as you plan your ceremony and reception. As you plan, just remember that you’re making memories. Make them great!